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14 November 2023, by Billy Boss

What Do You Really Mean When You Say, "I AM FINE"

 

Do you know that “I am fine” is the most told lie in the English language? It is usually used when someone is, in fact, not fine but they say “I am fine” because they don’t want to burden others and it’s easier to explain than what’s wrong, would you agree?

F.I.N.E is said to stand for “Feeling Insecure, Neurotic and Emotional”, and can also be “Feeling I’m Nothing to Everyone” or “Feeling Inadequate, Needing Encouragement”. Whatever your definition of FINE may be most of us would just lie and say “I am FINE”, because it’s an easy way out.

Then why do we say “I am fine” when clearly, we’re not:

  • Not sure of what you really feel
  • Pretending to be okay
  • To avoid conflicts
  • Scared to tell what you're really feeling

 

Only those who identify with these feelings can truly understand the agony behind the words “I am fine.”

The next time someone asks how you are, think about the response you’re already anticipating. What if we didn’t settle for “fine”? What if we stop, take a moment, and answer with true sincerity how I’m doing? Or better yet, tell them how you’re feeling. We could all benefit from slowing down and honestly evaluating how we are doing.

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26 December 2023, by Billy Boss

The Blueprint on How to Master Your Message and Speak with True Confidence with Jaimie Abbott

 

Ever wondered how some leaders effortlessly captivate their audience, leaving a lasting impact with every word? Picture this: the confidence radiating from a speaker who knows their message is not just heard but embraced.

Now, you might be curious about the connection between mastering your message and unshakeable confidence. Let me introduce to you, my friend, one of my mentors, Jaimie Abbott, the master of speaking and the guiding force behind some of the most influential voices in the industry.

Join us as Jaimie takes us on a journey through her own narrative, from the early days of honing her skills to becoming a sought-after communication strategist. Her insights are a treasure trove of wisdom, helping you navigate public speaking with finesse and authenticity.

In this episode, Jaimie shares:

  • 9:42 - Crafting the Path: Journeying on How We Manifest Dreams into Reality
  • 13:28 - Jaimie's Reflection: No Regrets, Only Lessons - Navigating Pain, Financial Loss, and Mistakes
  • 15:53 - Embracing Life: Take a Moment to "Stop and Smell the Roses" 🌹
  • 16:35 - Confidence Unleashed: Proven Tips for Transforming into a Dynamic Speaker
  • 23:01 - Masterful Messaging: Navigating the Art of Communicating with Your Ideal Client
  • 39:40 - The Four C's of Public Speaking and Presenting
  • 43:23 - Discovering Jaimie's Presence: Where to Connect and Engage
  • 47:02 - Jaimie's Insightful Message: A Closing Note for the Journey Ahead

Tune in, absorb the wisdom, and let Jaimie Abbott be your guide as you embark on a journey to master your message and speak with unwavering confidence. Because, in the world of communication, your voice matters, and your message deserves to be heard!

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