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14 November 2023, by Billy Boss

What Do You Really Mean When You Say, "I AM FINE"

Do you know that “I am fine” is the most told lie in the English language? It is usually used when someone is, in fact, not fine but they say “I am fine” because they don’t want to burden others and it’s easier to explain than what’s wrong, would you agree?

F.I.N.E is said to stand for “Feeling Insecure, Neurotic and Emotional”, and can also be “Feeling I’m Nothing to Everyone” or “Feeling Inadequate, Needing Encouragement”. Whatever your definition of FINE may be most of us would just lie and say “I am FINE”, because it’s an easy way out.

Then why do we say “I am fine” when clearly, we’re not:

Not sure of what you really feel
Pretending to be okay
To avoid conflicts
Scared to tell what you're really feeling

Only those who identify with these feelings can truly understand the agony behind the words “I am fine.”

The next time someone asks how you are, think about the response you’re already anticipating. What if we didn’t settle for “fine”? What if we stop, take a moment, and answer with true sincerity how I’m doing? Or better yet, tell them how you’re feeling. We could all benefit from slowing down and honestly evaluating how we are doing.

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02 September 2025, by Billy Boss

From Shame, Guilt & Fear to Wealth: The Inner Shift Behind $100K Months with Miranda Marriott – Part 1

Feeling like there’s no way out?
Like the shock, fear, and shame are crushing—and the life you once dreamed of feels completely out of reach?

In this raw and deeply moving episode, Miranda Marriott opens her heart and shares the unimaginable pain of discovering her husband’s betrayal during pregnancy, the collapse of a decade-long marriage, and the emotional rock bottom she faced.

But this isn’t just a story of heartbreak.
It’s a story of healing, awakening, and radical transformation.

Miranda reveals the emotional and spiritual tools that helped her rebuild her life from the ground up—starting with her SWIRL method for processing shock, and the one powerful shift that took her from constant financial worry to consistent $100K months in her soul-aligned business.

This episode is for every woman who’s ever felt broken, rejected, or afraid to start over.

Let Miranda’s journey remind you:
You are not stuck. You are being called to rise.

If you’re ready to break free from limiting beliefs and build lasting self-worth, grab your FREE Guide: 13 Ways to Build Unshakeable Self-Worth HERE.

Questions to Dig Deeper (Inspired by Miranda Marriott’s Journey)

When was the last time I felt completely overwhelmed or broken—and what did I tell myself in that moment?
Am I still carrying shame, fear, or guilt from a past experience that I haven’t fully allowed myself to process?
What would it feel like to move through pain rather than avoid or suppress it?
Which stage of the SWIRL method (Shatter, Withdraw, Internalise, Rage, Lift) am I currently navigating—and what does this part of my healing need?
What limiting belief around money, success, or worth am I ready to release?
Where in my life am I still operating from survival mode—and what would it look like to shift into creation mode instead?
What would change if I chose to create from love and vision, rather than fear and lack?
What does abundance truly mean to me—not just financially, but emotionally and spiritually?
What’s one small but soul-led decision I could make today that brings me closer to the life I desire?
What version of me is waiting on the other side of this transformation—and how can I begin to embody her now?

Questions to Dig Deeper (Inspired by Miranda Marriott’s Journey):

When was the last time I felt completely overwhelmed or broken—and what did I tell myself in that moment?
Am I still carrying shame, fear, or guilt from a past experience that I haven’t fully allowed myself to process?
What would it feel like to move through pain rather than avoid or suppress it?
Which stage of the SWIRL method (Shatter, Withdraw, Internalise, Rage, Lift) am I currently navigating—and what does this part of my healing need?
What limiting belief around money, success, or worth am I ready to release?
Where in my life am I still operating from survival mode—and what would it look like to shift into creation mode instead?
What would change if I chose to create from love and vision, rather than fear and lack?
What does abundance truly mean to me—not just financially, but emotionally and spiritually?
What’s one small but soul-led decision I could make today that brings me closer to the life I desire?
What version of me is waiting on the other side of this transformation—and how can I begin to embody her now?

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